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I'm calendar-driven to such an extent that I joke that all it would take to murder me would be to insert "jump off a cliff" in my calendar.
I never use a calendar; most days, I don't even know what day it is. So, your approach is very interesting to me. Could you please tell me more about what your day looks like on the calendar? How detailed is it, and do you do this even on holidays?
[todo/home] clean air filters
[todo/home] take out trash
[todo/home] refill [daughter]'s medication
[work] 9:30 meeting with [person]
[home] 10:30 doctor appt @ 313 river
[home] 11:30 [daughter] dropoff at middle school orientation
[work] 13:45 meeting with [person]
[home] 16:00 [daughter] cello lesson
[todo/work] 16:45 check if zpool is done resilvering
[home] 19:30 ?outdoor contradance @ c?
I cannot imagine how people operate without a calendar. How would you remember a half dozen or dozen things, every day, some of which might have been scheduled weeks or months in advance?