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The thing is, it actually doesn't matter. No one needs to be a certain way. Cool things will be done by people that can and will do those cool things. In the end the prescriptivity of this whole space is only ascribed by people internal to the whole system: externally nothing is 'supposed' to be done. This is just a symptom of more people programming. The thing that will speak the loudest is actions and results. If p…
This "that's just like, your opinion, man" attitude may be fine if you have no worldly goal affinity and are planning on spending the rest of your days in a remote mountain monastery. If you don't care about achieving any particular goal, then yes, all possible attitudes are equivalent. But that sort of handwavey quietism is not actually relevant to almost all people's situations. If you do have specific short term g…
I think we can avoid those mistakes but what I see here is people telling other people what to do in a way that sounds unconditional: "x is better regardless of your situation." Some techs are better for x, other for y. Merging someone else's experience tree into your own is good, but it must be contextualized by their perspective--they're working on mobile embedded soft vs. you are on web, maybe, for instance. Or games vs. databasey things. Or their job is a performance engr but you are UI...