> You might get the random ultra woke person who makes it impossible for others to have a conversation because they're just waiting to be triggered by anything anyone else says and find a way to spin every comment into an offence.
> If anyone brings up politics then the meetup is over, at least for me.
> I brought up the population issue in a light way (Japan's population is declining), something like making the joke that they didn't help Japan's population decline. He replied something like "anyone who tells you there's an underpopulation issue is lying. The planet has 8 billion people which is way too many". And that was when I knew I wasn't going to continue the conversation.
You brought up an intensely political issue (population decline), they responded, and then you got mad at them and felt like they brought up a political issue?
It sounds like you are doing exactly the thing you are complaining about "ultra woke" people doing.