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> Forking is extremely aggressive This is not so. If you said "forking can be perceived as an aggressive action"* I would not disagree with you, but in the context of an FOS ecosystem, forking should not be perceived as aggressive, and it definitely is not inherently so. If someone doesn't want anyone to fork their project, why release it under an open source license? Free/Open source, full control: pick one. I objec…
I actually agree with you in a general sense, but our own opinions don't really matter much. What matters is the opinions in the aggregate. I wish that it wasn't perceived as such, but the reality is that it is. Ignore that at your own peril.
I think you should just fork it privately, apply your patch, and move on with your life.