Earlier quoted context omitted.
By supporting trump (and thus pence and gop) one implicitly agrees with people dying due to cuts in health services. (And yes, pence has already done health-related things whose only consequence were deaths.) Do you feel being fired and blacklisted is a worse consequence than suffered by people impacted by support of trump (and his people)?
So by supporting Clinton would you implicitly be agreeing to bombing children in Syria? That's just a silly line of reasoning
However incompetent I think he is, I doubt that was deliberate though, and is besides the point.
Every president will inevitably make military decisions that will lead to civilian casualties. It's never nice, and it's never "okay", but it's also extremely difficult to avoid, in a conflict.
Repealing ACA is purely political, with very real effects on tens of millions of Americans losing coverage, benefitting only rich people.
It's not an unavoidable side effect. Just fucking don't do it. Your comparison is ludicrous.