Obscurity can be fine but it's not security. I think of it like cover and concealment in the military. Security is cover. Something you can get behind so the bullets don't hit you. Obscurity is concealment. Harder to see, harder to find, so the enemy doesn't know where to shoot, but it's not stopping any bullets. Both have advantages and disadvantages and can complement each other depending on how they're used.
I don't think that really works because obscurity isn't harder to see or find. I don't know the analogy, it's like standing out in the open and being like "yeah but who would think to look here lol".
To keep with the analogy: no one is going to stand in a field when people are shooting at you. So then why do a small subset of vocal people online suggest that you just put your bulletproof vest and claim that hiding in the woods, regardless of the vest, is a bad idea?