> The enthalpy changes measured by a calorimeter are dependent on the design of the calorimeter, which could have been a different piece of equipment.
Right, but that is true of anything. Measuring devices need to be calibrated and maintained properly. It does not make something like a distance subjective, just because someone is measuring it in cm and someone else in km.
> If you introduced a new bit of macro information to the definition of an ensemble, you'd divide the number of microstates by some factor. That's the micro level equivalent of macroscopic entropy being undefined up to an additive constant.
It would change the entropy of your model. An ensemble in statistical Physics is not a physical object. It is a mental construct and a tool to calculate properties. An actual material would have whatever entropy it wants to have regardless of any assumptions we make. You would just find that the entropy of the material would match the entropy of one of the models better than the other one. If you change your mind and re-run the experiment, you’d still find the same entropy. This happens e.g. if we assume that the experiment is at a constant volume while it is actually under constant pressure, or the other way around.
> In a sense, that makes it dependent on the definition of enthalpy.
Not really. A joule is a joule, a kelvin is a kelvin, and the basic laws of thermodynamics are some of the most well tested in all of science. The entropy of a bunch of atoms is not more dependent on arbitrary definitions than the energy levels of the atoms.
> The measurables don't tell you S, they only tell you dS.
That’s true in itself, the laws of Thermodynamics are invariant if we add a constant term to the entropy. But it does not mean that entropy is subjective: two observers agreeing that the thing they are observing has an entropy of 0 at 0 K will always measure the same entropy in the same conditions. And it does not mean that actual entropy is dependent on specific assumptions about the state of the thing.
This is also true of energy, and electromagnetic potentials (and potentials in general). This is unrelated to entropy being something special or subjective.