Earlier quoted context omitted.
Electromagnetism is both a continuous wave and a discrete particle, so it makes sense to me that a continuous spacetime curvature could also be a discrete particle at the same time. (Keeping in mind we're not talking about tangible shapes but mathematical models that describe aspects of reality that are hard for humans to intuitively conceptualize.) Of course, our idea of how to reconcile quantum gravity with general…
My understanding is the particle model of electromagnetism, the photon, really only shows up where the em field interacts with matter(electrons really), the em field itself is not quantized, or at least not quantized at the level of the photon. Not that this really matters(intentional), we can only interact with the em field as matter so that is what matters.
At first I thought this was a great pun. But then this is perhaps also the reason the word is actually "matters"? Where "matters" is what means something? What matters is what has an observable effect?