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I hired 5 people to sit behind me and make me productive for a month

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Re: I hired 5 people to sit behind me and make me productive for a month

#81

This and things like FocusMate seem symptomatic of much larger, more serious latent problems. It reminds of the younger generations having to put YouTube on to eat a meal. I can't quite put my finger on the connection, but paying a person sit behind you and ask how you're doing, and make you a smoothie... it feels like you're hiring someone to be your mother. This entire experiment left me feeling unclean.

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Re: I hired 5 people to sit behind me and make me productive for a month

#82

> I have an endlessly growing list of projects I want to make, books I want to read, and skills I want to learn, so productivity means a lot to me! If it really meant a lot, it wouldn't be a challenge to actually do it. It sounds like the real problem is a lack of interest in the particular books, skills, etc.

I think there’s something to that. It could be that there’s no immediate interest, i.e. everything is tantalizing but roughly equally so, so they cancel each other out and all simply exist as vague desires rather than actual goals.

This sounds like a complex way of maintaining an identity as interested in things that are not actually interesting.

Re: I hired 5 people to sit behind me and make me productive for a month

#83

Chop wood. Carry water. Just do the work, or don't. This is some bullshit.

There’s something to be said that manual labor is probably less anxiety-inducing or at least less easy to shirk than abstract work.

I love procrastinate my "abstract work" with "manual labour".

Somehow it's more obvious that it will yield results (at all) and soon.

Re: I hired 5 people to sit behind me and make me productive for a month

#84

This and things like FocusMate seem symptomatic of much larger, more serious latent problems. It reminds of the younger generations having to put YouTube on to eat a meal. I can't quite put my finger on the connection, but paying a person sit behind you and ask how you're doing, and make you a smoothie... it feels like you're hiring someone to be your mother. This entire experiment left me feeling unclean.

The loss of "public life" in NA is a fairly well documented phenomenon. Putnam's Bowling Alone was a famous warning shot that we never quite reacted to. For a whole host of reasons, many people nowadays, and especially many young people, are lonely in a way and scale that is hard to imagine 50 or 60 years ago.

Btw this doesn't just include young people. People needing youtube on to eat is just another variation on needing the TV on. I know and have read about some elderly people that keep the weather channel or 24hr news on all day out of sheer loneliness. Across the board people are just lonely in numbers that lead it could be called an epidemic by many health and mental health organizations.

This experiment left me feeling unclean for a different reason: this person essentially just hired a retinue of servants.

Re: I hired 5 people to sit behind me and make me productive for a month

#85
The not-completely-bonkers version of this is called "body doubling". Especially for people with ADHD and other executive function disorders, just being in someone else's presence can be hugely beneficial for productivity. There are several body doubling apps out there that virtually pair you with people while you're working.

Re: I hired 5 people to sit behind me and make me productive for a month

#87
post #16

This reminds me of "This Guy Hired Someone To Slap Him In The Face Every Time He Got On Facebook" https://www.businessinsider.com/this-guy-hired-someone-to-sl...

This comment reminds me of reddit, where people feel like reading a headline warrants a comment without actually reading the article

(for context, in the article you could read, the story linked above, was the inspiration for this experiment)

Re: I hired 5 people to sit behind me and make me productive for a month

#88
post #70

Earlier quoted context omitted.

I clicked on the "About" page and learned that the author is 21. For a minute that made the experiment make more sense. Then it stopped making sense again.

I'm more confused by these comments. Like, he's 21. This is an interesting experience and a great story to tell. Sounds like money well-spent and I'm glad he's experimenting in unusual ways. That's what makes life interesting and worth living. Some of my most memorable and valuable memories stem from bad decisions or experimenting with different ideas that might be dumb. Some of you need to touch grass.

Alice thinks it's odd that Bob budgeted $10k/mo to hire proxy moms to check in on him & cook for him. Do you tell Alice to touch grass?

Re: I hired 5 people to sit behind me and make me productive for a month

#90

The obliviousness to the human element and power dynamics here is shocking. It would be one thing for an eccentric billionaire to do something like this; it would feel sort of par for the course and understandable that they don't really have to answer to anyone there's no downside in letting it all hang out. But a 21-year-old Meta engineer with big ambitions? It's sort of mind-boggling.

I‘m sure the assistants were happy to earn some easy, casual money - far more demeaning or difficult jobs pay a lot worse. One assistant expressed interest in the experiment and honestly I’d have been open to helping a friend do this for science

You spent this entire comment shutting down self reflection. Bit weird.
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