NextDoor: home of the dumbest people on the Internet. They must be proud of that. There are occasionally things I want to see on there: a new Costco going in where the OSH Hardware used to be, or whatnot. So I got the daily email digest. One email per day -- tolerable. Then it stopped coming. I wrote to Support, and their guy swore it was still being sent! I said "no, it's not. I looked in Spam and Trash." He swore a…
WTF Nextdoor? Over 130 clicks to disable email and push notifications?
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#82NextDoor: home of the dumbest people on the Internet. They must be proud of that. There are occasionally things I want to see on there: a new Costco going in where the OSH Hardware used to be, or whatnot. So I got the daily email digest. One email per day -- tolerable. Then it stopped coming. I wrote to Support, and their guy swore it was still being sent! I said "no, it's not. I looked in Spam and Trash." He swore a…
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The following progression of thought comes to mind: many police departments have a mandatory arrest policy for calls in response to alleged domestic violence. Despite the fact that many neighborhoods are, frankly, boring, plenty of nextdoor users are looking for a chance to interact with the app and contribute to "the greater good." It's easy enough to call the police "just in case," but often there are disastrous results[0] that at minimum include the arrest of one of the partners, regardless of guilt. This kind of mindless see-something-say-something excuse marches us daily toward a speech-chilling antisocial breakdown where all that's left to do is clutch our pearls and cower at the thought of interaction. Nextdoor directly provides a channel for the amplification and praise of this modality of thought. While (I hope) most people reject or ignore it, its continued existence is a net negative for neighborhoods and society.
[0] https://www.fox10phoenix.com/news/police-release-video-taken... -- note that Ahwatukee is a wealthy suburb of Phoenix
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#83This seems like the least of the negative impacts nextdoor encourages. i removed myself after months of watching people on this app become more and more paranoid, feeding off each other. the breaking point was when someonea put out a warning that someone had knocked on their door at 7:00pm, “the wife and i were eating dinner when the rude knock came. we crept over to the window, peeked out, and didn’t recognize the p…
For context we live in a somewhat isolated, well off suburb, that according to police data has had a grant total of 63 crimes committed in it during the last 12 months, 41 of which were just people vandalising the same abandoned building.
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>I begrudgingly use Nextdoor to make sure I don’t get put on blast for going on a run or ... And so what if you are? Not being there and put on blast affects you how? Being there and put on blast is different because? You can respond by using gasoline to put out the fire? Nextdoor is a great place to find out who you never want to associate in real life.
I don't know the dynamics of Nextdoor, but others complaining and organizing against me would scare me.
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Yeah, I begrudgingly use Nextdoor to make sure I don’t get put on blast for going on a run or walking my kid to school too close to someone’s driveway, and the unfathomably bad design and functionality of their mobile site has me convinced that they’d be incapable of intentionally implementing dark patterns.
>I begrudgingly use Nextdoor to make sure I don’t get put on blast for going on a run or ... And so what if you are? Not being there and put on blast affects you how? Being there and put on blast is different because? You can respond by using gasoline to put out the fire? Nextdoor is a great place to find out who you never want to associate in real life.
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#86This seems like the least of the negative impacts nextdoor encourages. i removed myself after months of watching people on this app become more and more paranoid, feeding off each other. the breaking point was when someonea put out a warning that someone had knocked on their door at 7:00pm, “the wife and i were eating dinner when the rude knock came. we crept over to the window, peeked out, and didn’t recognize the p…
(Eventually we found the home. The mother said their dog was in their basement, and we almost left without a flyer until her daughter ran to the door and said their dog was missing and identified her and then the mom was willing to come get the dog. Strange episode.)
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#87Earlier quoted context omitted.
>I begrudgingly use Nextdoor to make sure I don’t get put on blast for going on a run or ... And so what if you are? Not being there and put on blast affects you how? Being there and put on blast is different because? You can respond by using gasoline to put out the fire? Nextdoor is a great place to find out who you never want to associate in real life.
That was mostly sarcasm, but I would prefer to know if my neighbors think I’m a burglar so that I can politely let them know that I’m not.
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Specifically for the design. I haven't been on it in a year, so my memory is foggy, but the reason I left was the fact that it seems tailor made to amplify the most paranoid, antisocial perspectives at the expense of good faith and trust. The following progression of thought comes to mind: many police departments have a mandatory arrest policy for calls in response to alleged domestic violence. Despite the fact that…
The result is that shitposts spread and drive engagement.
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#89This seems like the least of the negative impacts nextdoor encourages. i removed myself after months of watching people on this app become more and more paranoid, feeding off each other. the breaking point was when someonea put out a warning that someone had knocked on their door at 7:00pm, “the wife and i were eating dinner when the rude knock came. we crept over to the window, peeked out, and didn’t recognize the p…
The last post I read that caused me to delete my account was about an elderly woman complaining about a brown guy taking pictures of his own car on a public street. (It seemed like he was putting it up for sale, after looking at the photo "evidence" and he obviously was the owner.)
When I commented it was that it was a public street, she got all huffy and flipped out at me. And the same type of "We have to be careful!" response.
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iOS only lets you turn off bluetooth for a day at a time.
When turned off using control center. You can still completely disable it within settings. ( https://support.apple.com/en-us/HT208086 )