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Though I've not requested deletion, I've found HN's mod team exceptionally responsive in general. Have you actually tried to follow the process? Are you aware of any instances in which requests have been denied?
If I'm trying to keep my self anonymous-ish, Why do YOU think email is the best way to do that? This should be in-app as a request or an action I can self-execute. "Email us" is the New York Times model of "buy online, but deal with hours of phone-hell"
What possible issues might that create?
What specifically is your issue with an email-based request?
You seem to be seeking opportunities to be unsatisfied. Those tend to be easy to find.