Remember when operating systems didn't have multi-gigabyte binary blobs performing cryptic actions with an extremely chatty online connection?
No, I don't remember a time when users were in control and actually owned Apple-made hard- and software. However, linux is alive and well, despite some flavours attempting to force autoupdating snap stores and the like onto users.
Not sure why are a singling out Apple here. Windows is worse as are many (most?) hardware vendors; there is a reason everyone REALLY should fresh install vanilla Windows over the vendors OEM version.