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What it's like to be cancelled

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Re: What it's like to be cancelled

#81

The author is the one who groped all those women at conventions, but is acting like he's the victim here.

I didn't grope anyone and I'm not sure where you've heard that, but it's 100% false.

It's probably from https://twitter.com/BettyDesuJiang/status/127450059571858227...

No clue whether or not that claim is true, just pointing out the source

Re: What it's like to be cancelled

#83
post #19

I don't know the guy, and I don't know what happened. That's why I certainly don't want to side with anyone in this specific case. But boy, cancel culture and this whole social justice warrior crap makes me so glad that I moved away from the U.S. many years ago to saner parts of the world. Obviously that is going to get me downvoted to oblivion here on HN. But hey.

This post is a great example of how to attack something (cancel culture) while also acting like a victim (downvote me). This is a powerful technique that seems to be getting more and more common in society.

Re: What it's like to be cancelled

#84

The author is the one who groped all those women at conventions, but is acting like he's the victim here.

I didn't grope anyone and I'm not sure where you've heard that, but it's 100% false.

I heard it from the original claim: "Remember the bald headed crusty assed "well known" artist who went around groping female devs, and ended up having his face bit after trying to pour drinks down the throat of a girl whose already very intoxicated at the Massive Black workshop after party ?" (https://twitter.com/BettyDesuJiang/status/127450059571858227...)

Re: What it's like to be cancelled

#85
post #58

You did not get cancelled for questionable comments online, or wrongthink, or whatever. You got burned for being a sexual predator. Stop making posts about it online, stop downplaying what you did by saying "I was a different person". Learn to live with the consequences of your actions.

Loser

Re: What it's like to be cancelled

#86

I still don't understand "cancel culture." It seems the equivalent of a random person saying "I put a voodoo curse on you." What non-mythological power does it invoke? Does it ever lead to mainstream, widespread shunning? The next part I don't understand is the weak culture of profuse and repeated apologizing and contrition for a "microaggression." This is something Bill Maher harps about from time-to-time. Finally,…

> "Does it ever lead to mainstream, widespread shunning?"

It seems like the answer to this is yes? or at least enough to have serious life consequences for those that find themselves on the wrong side of it.

Losing your job, losing your spouse, losing your reputation, it's basically a form of ex-communication that can have serious consequences.

Mob justice is not a great thing independent of specific instances, there's a reason we moved as a society to courts - they're not perfect, but they're better.

Cancelling also conflates two things often, but the mob response is similar.

There are people 'cancelled' because they discuss ideas that others disagree with. I think this is the most objectionable. Then there are people cancelled for (often, but not always sexual) behavior - this is more nuanced in the sense that the action may be (but is not always) wrong, but the mob justice is wrong too. There is also a wide spectrum of behavior here that ranges from mild to actual crime, and in the public 'mob justice' sphere (rather than a court) often nuance is lost and the truth is lost too.

We have a criminal system, courts, and the presumption of innocence for a reason.

Re: What it's like to be cancelled

#87

Earlier quoted context omitted.

A lot of it is that journalists will amplify it as well if they are one of the 100 who sees it. Seen journalist job postings where checking Twitter for stories is part of it.

Journalists participate in Twitter at a rate probably 10-100x the overall population. Most people don't ever log into Twitter, most journalists do daily. I think you can look at it this way: * For normal people, Twitter is not real life. * For journalists, Twitter is real life. Journalists then become the vector by which BS Twitter drama becomes mainstreamed.

My anecdotal observations do not match yours. A large percentage of the younger people (under 30) that I know are on twitter several/many times a day every single day. These are not tech workers, nor are they journalists, they're just college students, graduate students, and adjacent.

Re: What it's like to be cancelled

#88

Earlier quoted context omitted.

A lot of it is that journalists will amplify it as well if they are one of the 100 who sees it. Seen journalist job postings where checking Twitter for stories is part of it.

Journalists participate in Twitter at a rate probably 10-100x the overall population. Most people don't ever log into Twitter, most journalists do daily. I think you can look at it this way: * For normal people, Twitter is not real life. * For journalists, Twitter is real life. Journalists then become the vector by which BS Twitter drama becomes mainstreamed.

Incidentally, I deleted my Twitter today. 4600 followers in hell, which is quite a lot for a Czech language community (10 million speakers only), but I can no longer tolerate the toxicity.

Yes, journalists are overrepresented there and yes, their journalism often degenerates into "we are covering what happened on Twitter".

But the worst offenders in terms of toxicity aren't journos. They are ... well, tormented human beings who love to dish out some misery to everyone around. Usually under a superficial veneer of a respectable goal.

So long and thanks for all the tweets, but I am not coming back. After leaving Facebook in July 2019, I felt almost liberated; I expect the same to happen now.

Re: What it's like to be cancelled

#89
>If you give me six lines written by the hand of the most honest of men, I will find something in them which will hang him.

-Cardinal Richelieu

If some people want to use the internet to destroy your reputation, they will, and there's very little that you can do about it. You can't prove anything to anyone, and once people smell blood, they frenzy on you, regardless of the truth.

Re: What it's like to be cancelled

#90

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What would you suggest you do when you have been behaving incorrectly? You can’t change the past.

That's an odd strawman. I... wouldn't behave incorrectly in the first place. It's not a difficult concept to understand for most people I hope, especially with sexual harassment.

Everyone makes mistakes, behaves incorrectly, and causes harm though. Everyone has. You, me too.
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