This line of thinking doesn't make sense. The zero-sympathy-no-exceptions attitude comes from lacking context of the problem, so hopefully I can help.
> You aren't entitled...
While the person you describe probably exists, it's not all 18% of students struggling with payments. I'd just like to say that being aggressive helps nobody.
> Instate tuition at VA Tech is 13k for the year, if you live in Texas, UT is 4-5k a semester. While not cheap, this is far from unaffordable.
Are the people born away from the coasts out of luck then? There are dozens states in the Midwest with cheap tuition, but after graduation there aren't any jobs waiting.
The quality of education is usually poor when professors teach subjects for fields that they've never been a part of.
Students know these things, and feel it's worth taking on debt to get a better education and live somewhere with opportunities.
> Go learn a trade, get scholarships, join the military, work for a company that will pay for your education, start your own business.
I'm assuming you work in tech. Would your employer hire someone in their 30's with no relevant work history? I've worked at two of the large tech companies and two smaller companies, and I know they wouldn't consider it.
Apprenticeships are disappearing - low skill work gets automated now. Medium skill jobs are being outsourced or given to contractors. What you're suggesting isn't realistic.