The USA and a few other cultures have unfortunately devalued shame to the point where it holds nearly no cultural power. Shame is an important aspect of behaviour moderation, a negative emotion usefully experienced when doing something that breaks the social contract. Devaluing shame instad of targeting the parts of the contract that needed to be changed has cost us a critical tool for self moderation and has created…
It sounds like you are advocating for the virtues of oppression and the subjugation of anyone or anything that does not fit your norm.
> (...) many people unfortunately need an authority figure (...)
Let me stop you right there, and make it quite clear to you how profoundly idiotic and prejudicial your personal opinion is.
As you seem to advocate that people unfortunately need an authority figure, I'm sure you will acknowledge your need to be put in your place when you step out of line with this blend of nonsense, and simply succumb to the shame you should be rightfully feeling for your regrettable opinion.
If not, perhaps you can start to understand why your opinion makes absolutely no sense.