I am a man (it works better from this point of view) on a dating app, with a few blurry pictures making up my profile. It kinda looks like I look ok, but who knows. I reach out to a good-looking and engaging woman (the "seniority") and I tell her that I am possibly interested in her being my partner, I can provide and care for her (that's what I say, she does not know whether in reality I can or cannot do it), but before I make my offer, she has to take professional photos, answer to a 4-hour survey, a couple of calls of 30 to 45 minutes each when she is asked about her previous experience with relationships, then introduce herself to my family and friends and see if they are ok with her.
Then, maybe I will make an offer. And, maybe, an offers she would like.
I don't know why I have troubles finding a partner.