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You're really selectively quoting those studies. From the first link (the pew poll): Young women, those 18-24, experience certain severe types of harassment at disproportionately high levels: 26% of these young women have been stalked online, and 25% were the target of online sexual harassment. In addition, they do not escape the heightened rates of physical threats and sustained harassment common to their male peers…
I haven't actually quoted anything, so I find it hard to believe I've selectively quoted. :) I think, in fact, you'll find that I didn't say that there was no difference, just that the differences weren't as large as I've seen claimed in various online discussions. I also made very sure to make sure that I pointed out the second study was both unscientific and poorly calibrated. The fact that you noticed that there w…
Not to mention that the "I'm going to fucking rape you and kill you" sort of abuse is a tad harsher than the "fuck you, Mr President" sort of abuse.
Similarly, plenty of people swear as part of casual conversation and use swearing affectionately ("How the fuck are you?"). It's such a painfully bad methodology... word type does not necessarily indicate tone nor intent.
Looking a bit deeper, according to their methodology and looking at the word list, the following comments would be considered abusive: "you're gorgeous, wanna have sex" "vote for pedro, he's against smut" "join the campaign for testicle cancer research" "have you seen the vagina monologues yet?" "check out this picture of Harry with tennis balls" Interestingly, 'breast' is fine, but 'breasts' isn't - I guess that lets the breast cancer people discuss their issues?