> To be honest I don't know why it's such an issue on Linux.
edit: I wrote all this before realizing I overlooked that you answered it yourself, so below is my very elaborate explanation of what you said:
> Windows presumably because it doesn't over-commit memory.
I'm no expert but from what I've gathered this ultimately boils down to how Linux went with fork for multiprocessing, vs Windows focused on threads.
With fork, you clone the process. Since it's a clone it gets a copy of all the memory of the parent process. To make fork faster and consume less physical memory, Linux went with copy-on-write for the process' memory. This avoids an expensive copy, and also avoids duplicating memory which will only be read.
The downside is that Linux has no idea how much of the memory shared with the clone that the clone or the parent will modify after the fork call. If the clone just does a small job and exits quickly, neither it or the parent will modify a lot of pages, thus most of them are never actually copied. The fastest work is the work you never perform, so this is indeed fast.
However, in some cases the clone is long-lived and thus a lot of memory might eventually end up getting copied. Well, Linux needs to back those copies with physical memory, and so if there's not enough physical memory around it has to evict something. While Linux scrambles to perform the copy, the process which triggers it has to wait.
AFAIK one can configure Linux to reserve physical memory for a worst-case scenario where it has to copy all the cloned memory. However in almost all normal cases, this grossly overestimates the required memory and thus leads to swapping when technically it is not needed.
On Windows this is very different. Instead of spawning a cloned process to do extra work, you spawn a thread. And all threads belonging to a process shares the same memory. Thus there is no need to clone memory, no need for the copy-on-write optimization, and thus Windows has much better knowledge about how much free physical memory it actually has to work with.
Of course a thread on Windows can still allocate a huge amount of memory and trigger swapping that way, but Windows will never suddenly be in a situation where it then also needs to scramble to copy some shared pages.