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> > By definition overly emotional is bad > Human reactions are by definition not bad. I said “overly emotional” was bad by definition, not “human reactions”. Don’t change my words then argue against what you changed them to. > Try an experiment for me. Tell your partner that you want to split up. Once they finish crying, tell them that they're being "overly" emotional. See how that goes for you. Why? They would not…
OK, so what makes you the arbiter of when an emotion is "in excess"? Your partner crying at being broken up with is OK by you. What if they call you a rude name? Or throw crockery? Who decides that the emotions they are showing are bad? > Hate and insults are not somebody saying “it will make me sad”. You misrepresented what GP was saying. Why? "How dare you break up with me! You bastard!" "Whoa! There's no need for…
You asked:
> Why shouldn't people be overly emotional?
I am not the arbiter. I am not calling any particular thing overly emotional. I am merely pointing out that overly emotional is bad by definition. People should not be overly emotional because it’s overly emotional. It’s bad by definition.
> Hate and insults are not somebody saying “it will make me sad”. You misrepresented what GP was saying. Why?
You are still avoiding this question.