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> parents facing what I understand can be one of a lifetime's more difficult decisions. Do you believe that parents who choose to terminate a downs fetus are evil/utilitarian? Or are the doctors who perform the testing/abortion the evil/utilitarian ones? Or the lawmakers who allow such testing/abortion to be legal? Where exactly is the responsibility for being evil/utilitarian in your mind?
What? How does any of this follow from anything I've said? What's utilitarian about demanding a scapegoat for something that isn't even indictable? I'm not criticizing parents' decisions, but yours. This specifically includes your using the sorrow of others, in this case parents faced with a harrowing dilemma, as an excuse for your own behavior, rather than demonstrate anything resembling the courage of your supposed…
I don't know man, if you think it's fine for parents to abort downs babies, I think that means you're the utilitarian.
You can try deny it, but in your heart of hearts you think it's fine to value avoiding the inconvenience of a downs baby higher than the value of a fetus's life.
That's pretty damn utilitarian.