Last month I switched from a role working on a distributed system (FAANG) to a role working on embedded software which runs on cards in data center racks. I was in my last role for a year, and 90%+ of my time was spent investigating things that went "missing" at one of many failure points between one of the many distributed components. I wrote less than 200 lines of code that year and I experienced the highest level…
This resonates a lot with me. Distributed systems require insanely hard math at the bottom (paxos, raft, gossip, vector clocks, ...) It's not how the human brain works natively -- we can learn abstract thinking, but it's very hard. Embedded systems sometimes require the parallelization of some hot spots, but those are more like the exception AIUI, and you have a lot more control over things; everything is more local…
This is built upon a framework of the network is either working or the server team / ops team is paged and will be actively trying to figure it out. It doesn't work nearly as well if you work in an environment where the network is consistently slightly broken.