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Procrastination and the fear of not being good enough

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Re: Procrastination and the fear of not being good enough

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Hey HN, what do you recommend against coder's block? I often freeze when wanting to write code.

Debugging is great. If I get block because the code is too complex, debugging is a good way to interact and understand the code. It starts to make more sense.

Console logging is still coding too! Debugging can be console logging or stepping through with a debugger. Or even run the program with different inputs.

Re: Procrastination and the fear of not being good enough

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post #68

Hey HN, what do you recommend against coder's block? I often freeze when wanting to write code.

Write out what you want to do in a single line. Then make a list of items needed to achieve that. Then split each of those items into 3s. Then split each of those items into 3s, again. Do this enough, and you will have the code you want to write. Then it just becomes a pseudo > real code transition, and LLMs are pretty decent at that.

Re: Procrastination and the fear of not being good enough

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Worrying what others think resonates with me a lot. Every few weeks I try to motivate myself to write more online (HN, X, blogs) and consistently get “self sabotage” stuck. (Been going on for >2 years) The article just says they pushed through and “put it aside”, but that has never seemed to quite work for me. I can push through once or twice, not enough to build a daily habit/obsession like I want. Anyone have any t…

Do you actually enjoy the process of writing online? Because for me I’ve realized there’s a difference between enjoying actually doing a hobby versus just fantasizing about what it would be like to be good at it. Maybe that’s not what you’re experiencing, but I’ve tried to get into hobbies and have run into the feeling you describe. Eventually I would drop the hobby because I just didn’t enjoy doing it. Ps congrats o…

I don’t think I have figured out whether I enjoy the process of writing itself.

But what I know for sure is that I have a lot of thoughts and ideas as well as opinions and the idea of putting them down and expanding upon them really really intrigues me.

I also believe that it will really help grow.

Re: Procrastination and the fear of not being good enough

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Maybe because you care about what others think you actually tell yourself that you need to write and read more to become "better" (not necessarily than others, just "better" as a person because you feel inadequate) and your body tells you that it's not actually what you want?

The solution might be to use the internet less and enjoy the offline life some more, not to "overcome the hurdle".

Re: Procrastination and the fear of not being good enough

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Worrying what others think resonates with me a lot. Every few weeks I try to motivate myself to write more online (HN, X, blogs) and consistently get “self sabotage” stuck. (Been going on for >2 years) The article just says they pushed through and “put it aside”, but that has never seemed to quite work for me. I can push through once or twice, not enough to build a daily habit/obsession like I want. Anyone have any t…

Does the fear of judgment occur even when you are behind an anonymous username?

Re: Procrastination and the fear of not being good enough

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If I had to sum up the reason in one word, it would be laziness. Wild to read this from a modern perspective. It's like reading about women being shamed for being 'hysterical', or religious peasants blaming their natural sexual feelings on demons. It just doesn't hold up to scrutiny... What is 'laziness' when applied to something that you clearly want to do? How can someone want something, yet simultaneously choose t…

It's unfortunate that I had to scroll to the bottom of the page to see any mention of ADHD or executive dysfunction, when the linked post describes what is clearly a form of executive dysfunction! Instant temporary treatment is a stimulant such as caffeine (which has annoying side-effects) or amphetamine salts (commonly known as adderall). Long-term treatment is exercize, which can be as simple as balancing on one leg for ten minutes every day or using an elliptical machine. Running outside is a decent option, but take care to avoid damaging the knees, which will happen by running on hard surfaces.

Dr. Russell Barkley has good explanations of what different prescription ADHD drugs do, which I find gives insight into what's going wrong when you have an executive dysfunction: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LnS0PfNyj4U

In particular, the emotional blunting effect of stimulants erases the thought that what you do might not be good enough. You no longer care about what others think, so you can just do what you want to do. I personally find this also makes me a callous asshole if I'm not careful, which I believe is related to the modern epidemic of coffee zombies.

Re: Procrastination and the fear of not being good enough

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I suffered from this.

The issue is the ego. Ego has a lot of ideas about itself and others. Ego has such high opinion about itself it only can do great work. Which prevents it from doing anything. It's kind of a way of avoiding failures. Because failures will break the grant ideas about himself OP has created.

I accidentally went through a spiritual awakening which diluted ego. I have no problem in doing any kind of work now. Whether it's great or petty.

OP needs to work on the ego. Or figure out a situation where OP has to ship things no matter what. Which is hard unless you are jobless and can't figure a way out apart from building useful things that people pay for.

Re: Procrastination and the fear of not being good enough

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"The most thunderous sound arises out of quietude." - Zhaungzi

"The monotony and solitude of a quiet life stimulates the creative mind." - Albert Einstein

"If you don't have time to read, you don't have the time (or the tools) to write. Simple as that." - Stephen King

In other words unplugging, making time to read books, and allowing yourself to be bored are all good ways to stimulate the creative mind.

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