From an admin perspective: Updates are a hot, complex mess which means I put them off until it's no longer feasible to do so (=because some software requires a newer version).
MySQL is easy: apt-get update/docker stop && docker rm && docker run/kubectl apply, depending on your stack that is literally all you need to do.
PostgreSQL in contrast is hell. You have to shut down the existing database server, install the new one in parallel, manually do the upgrade (that involves copying the whole dataset), remove the old stuff, and then start back up again. Or you have to export the whole database into an SQL dump and import it on a fresh instance.
In any case, way more involved, way more likely to go bonkers, and way, WAY more downtime needed.