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Hope is all you have, if email is the black box wilderness you describe. You rely on hope regardless of whether or not your email address contains "super-special characters". My whole point is that there is a standard for an email address, outlined in a freely-available document. If an application claims to handle email, that claim implies conformance to that standard. Any deviation should be documented. Your claim a…
Your view of this whole subject seems to be completely upside down. There's no such thing as a 100% guarantee when it comes to email (Interwebs 101) but it should be completely obvious to any sane person that you are getting much closer to those 100% if you don't use any "super-special characters" in your e-mail address as opposed to people "asking for it" by using an address like {^|~!}@gmail.com - which will obviou…
2) Gmail does allow you to send mail to non-legit, but standards-compliant addresses like {^|~!}@example.com, because they know that their own mailbox name rules don't extend to other providers.
Regarding your point b) evidently they're not smart enough to grasp that addresses with + in them only work on the theoretical internet, and not the real one.