"Unpopular but probably very true fact: ..."
Another unpopular but very true fact:
"Email", the technology, not the business, can be defined as party A depositing an RFC811 formatted message on the computer of party B. Email requires only a reachable IP address.
This definition of email can be implemented withut using third party intermediary SMTP servers. Sender and reciever SMTP servers can communicate directly, without so-called "store and forward". I conducted an experiment of "peer-to-peer" email: both sender and receiver are on a Layer 2 overlay, i.e., /dev/tap0 with private IP address, each running their own smtp server bound to tap0. qmail was used, it accepts IP addresses; no ICANN domainnames were needed but private DNS names were also tested. All traffic going through tap0 was encrypted. (Note: I did not use OpenVPN.) It worked as expected. The Layer 2 approach I used would be limited as to the size of networks but would probably accomodate the size of a persons cricle of friends, family and colleagues; addtionally small virtual LAN networks can be bridged to create larger internetowrks. It would probably work with encryption at Layer 3 as well, without such limitations. Maybe people have/will do this with Wireguard.
Whether or not this works for the email "business" is irrelevant. Whether or not this is practical for anyones use case is also irrelevant to this comment. The question is whether email can be encrypted. For me, the experiment proves it can, in at least one way.
Of course, once party A and party B have an end-to-end connection, e.g., over a "virtual LAN" over the internet, then there are many more interesting possibilities for communication than just "email".
Email has evolved in the way it is implemented, and IMO it can evolve further. If I recall correctly from reading old RFCs, I believe the original "email" was actually done via FTP. One deposited mail by appending to a file on the recipients computer. Of course in those days that computer was timeshared by many recipients because computers were too expensive for individual recipients to own. This is no longer true today. Computers are affordable for all recipients. (Yet, with respect to email, recipient still share computers. These are run by "email providers".)