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The number of just straight out NO's I've gotten has been surprising and disheartening. I've been a developer for 20 years and genuinely don't think I've gotten an outright "no" before this year. Usually just no response. I've gotten maybe eight or nine actual rejections this year. It's honestly worse, emotionally. Ideally I want a job outside my wheelhouse to learn and move forward, but it seems like no one these da…
Before COVID I would regularly apply for jobs, almost always get them, and decline largely to keep my interview skills fresh. Well, wait, isn't this just karma in action, then? Sounds like you deliberately wasted a lot of other peoples' valuable time.
Ie its a race to the bottom - there is no gold standard for a productive software engineer who is transferable to another company that really people trust