I've had Minecraft since before the pre-alpha days. I think I had a pirated copy of Alpha late in 2010 and some time in 2011 or shortly thereafter I actually bought the game. I might have easily sunk 1000s of hours into this game. I think I played the ending only once, in Creative Mode, to see what the fuss was about. I never cared for the ending, because to me Minecraft never had an ending. We had a Survival server…
What do you mean by "gaslighting" there? I understand "gaslighting" as "manipulating someone so as to make them question their own reality." Is that what you mean, or something else?
The author's behaviour is that of the spouse that's "totally not mad, honey" but you still feel uneasy afterwards.
I'm not sure what term to use to describe this behaviour. English is not my native language.