"The wilderness isn't quite what I expected. It's kinda... wild. I mean, it's not like they made it sound in my book. My dad made it sound so easy. He's really good at camping and how to make fire from rocks and stuff. He used to come to all my sweat lodge meetings. And afterwards we'd go get ice cream at Fenton's. I always get chocolate and he gets butter brickle. Then we'd sit on this one curb right outside, and I'…
> That might sound boring, but I think the boring stuff is the stuff I remember the most." There is no such thing as "quality time", only "time" (together).
you seem to be having together do the work of quality; were i to say "what about time together with a friend distracted by their phone?" you could say "oh, that is not quality time" or "but you aren't really together"
nothing wrong with contemplating whether these things are the same or different, just pointing out it can be hard to sum up complexity with single phrase aphorisms