I'm approaching midlife and noticing the quality of my sleep has declined. I can't sleep in anymore. Sometimes I'm waking up in the middle of the night occasionally and something I'm wide awake because I'm thinking about work or something like that. Very frustrating. Another reminder to try to pull myself away from the screens late at night.
- not getting rid of screens at least 30 mins before I hit the bed (60 is ideal)
- not getting tired/exercise enough during the day
- sleeping in the afternoon and anytime during the day more than 40-50 mins
- having coffee after 4-5pm
- having dinner after 8-830pm (though this is minor and I am not really sure it affects much)
- and this is the biggest culprit of all (or maybe second worst - next to screen time): even though it's past my sleep time (1030pm) not actually just getting down on the bed and close my eyes and just try to relax even though it seems maybe I am not sleepy. This also applies if I wake up before my wake up time and I do not force myself to go back to sleep that is at least "kinda" pretend i.e just lie down closing my eyes.
What helps:
- reading myself to sleep (paper books are what I read, so not sure about e-readers)
- hot chocolate (half glass) after dinner but 10-15 mins before hitting the bed
- allergy medication (when it becomes unbearable for me) :D (no it's rare for me to take that and I don't take without asking my doctor)
- listening to rain/thunder sound on my phone from a distance
- if there are things pending or things bothering in my head → then heading to my ToDo list "TCOT" (abbr. for take care of this) in Reminders.app and log/dump it there before hitting the bed → I have noticed that those things usually do not bother me at night then (but I don't have much personal/anecdotal data on this either)