I don't understand where this ORM 'divide' is coming from. ORMs are powerful, because they let you say less and do more. For 90% of the queries out there, an ORM is fine. SQL is powerful, because you can control and fine-tune your statements. For the remaining 10%, use SQL. Are ORMs bad? No. Can you them for everything? No. The same thing can be said for almost every technology in existence.
The divide is fundamentally about choosing what's in charge of your system, the system being composed of your databases, your applications, and your supporting infrastructure (your scripts, your migrations, etc.) To relational database folk such as myself, the central authority is the database, and our principal interests are what ACID exists to provide: concurrent, isolated, atomic transactions that cannot be lost,…
Surely this is a flawed world view!