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Not a silver bullet for every project but the Django ORM largely solves this with its migrations. You define your table classes and it just generates the migrations. Throw in a type checker and you're in pretty good shape. Rust also has sqlx which will type check your code against the DB.
An ORM is NEVER the solution, ever ever ever. Repeat after me: ORMs are not the solution to this problem. They work in your little toy apps with 4 customers but they are nothing but pain on real enterprise grade software.
Also, I don't really work on any apps with only four customers. either they have almost a million or zero :P Try again. :)