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If Money Doesn't Make You Happy Then You Probably Aren't Spending It Right [pdf]

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Re: If Money Doesn't Make You Happy Then You Probably Aren't Spending It Right [pdf]

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> there are savers who go to the other extreme, and that ascetic frugality is hard to grow out of even when it's no longer needed How common is this? You're saying that someone, in the pursuit of frugality, begins to pursue wealth accumulation instead, and never lets go of that goal to instead take advantage of their wealth and freedom over what they choose to do with their time?

Not GP, but: yes, exactly. The old story about the Mexican fisherman and the American businessman on holiday. How else would we get billionaires? These people work to the bone on wealth accumulation far beyond a fortune that they could ever spend on themselves.

This is me, I think. But I don't accumulate wealth for the sake of it, I am just very scared of being old and poor. I live VERY frugally now (I am in my forties) saving every penny for when I get old. In my country pension is really low, so I cannot reliably count on it to be my "source of income".

Re: If Money Doesn't Make You Happy Then You Probably Aren't Spending It Right [pdf]

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I have trouble reading this format so I threw it into ChatGPT to summarize:

This article, authored by Elizabeth W. Dunn, Daniel T. Gilbert, and Timothy D. Wilson, explores the often weak relationship between money and happiness, and suggests that this might be due to how people spend their money. They propose eight principles to help consumers derive more happiness from their spending:

1. Buy Experiences Instead of Things: Experiences tend to bring more lasting happiness than material goods because they are more central to our identities and hard to compare with others.

2. Help Others Instead of Yourself: Spending money on others, or prosocial spending, can lead to greater happiness than spending on oneself.

3. Buy Many Small Pleasures Instead of Few Big Ones: Due to adaptation, indulging in frequent small pleasures can lead to more sustained happiness compared to infrequent large ones.

4. Buy Less Insurance: People often overestimate their vulnerability to negative events, and thus overspend on unnecessary protections.

5. Pay Now and Consume Later: Delaying gratification can enhance happiness both through the anticipation of the event and by encouraging more thoughtful consumption choices.

6. Think About What You're Not Thinking About: Considering the peripheral aspects of a purchase, such as the daily realities or inconveniences, can lead to better decision-making.

7. Beware of Comparison Shopping: Focusing only on the differences between available options can lead consumers to overlook the importance of how a product will actually affect their happiness.

8. Follow the Herd Instead of Your Head: Other people’s experiences can be a valuable guide to what will make us happy.

The authors argue that while money can indeed buy happiness, it often doesn’t because people do not spend it in ways that actually increase their happiness. By following these principles, they suggest that individuals can make more fulfilling spending choices.

Re: If Money Doesn't Make You Happy Then You Probably Aren't Spending It Right [pdf]

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What about Money can buy most, if not all of the things that make … ?

I believe the intended effect is that the writer is reconsidering their statements after they are written, giving the text a more spoken quality. You are all a bunch of unrepentant nerds :D

Guilty as charged!

Re: If Money Doesn't Make You Happy Then You Probably Aren't Spending It Right [pdf]

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post #55

re: delaying purchases. Someone I worked with years ago told me about how they shop for stuff that I found immensely helpful. When they find something interesting online, they add it to their cart but do not check it out for two weeks. If they're still interested in the thing then, that means that they are more likely to use it, which justifies checking it out and buying it. If they are wondering why that's in their…

That is why online retailers have count-down timers and daily deals and coupons that expire tomorrow.

Re: If Money Doesn't Make You Happy Then You Probably Aren't Spending It Right [pdf]

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> research suggests that people are often happier when they spend their money on experiences rather than things I concur.

I don't know.

My expensive vacations still feel like too much money spent for too little return.

The parts I loved-- meeting old friends, and spending time with own family outside daily routine -- could have been achieved much more frugally and in a relaxed manner without the pressure of making the vacation pay for itself (e.g. limit the duration because hotels are expensive and rush through things).

Obviously this is a very subjective experience and also varies based on how wisely we plan out vacations and spend versus our means and mindset.

Re: If Money Doesn't Make You Happy Then You Probably Aren't Spending It Right [pdf]

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QEF? Don't you mean QED?

Having constructed a specific witness (sufficient for existences) rather than a general argument (necessary for universals), I thought "faciendum" more appropriate than "demonstrandum".

Ah, fair enough. I've herd of QED but never QEF. You learn something new everyday.

Re: If Money Doesn't Make You Happy Then You Probably Aren't Spending It Right [pdf]

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This has helped me better understand my avoidance of interest-free credit (assuming one has the option to pay in full). In theory, I get to have the item and a majority of my cash in my pocket with little downside. I reason that it's a burden I have to service and potentially the start of a slippery slope towards embracing credit facilities.

Re: If Money Doesn't Make You Happy Then You Probably Aren't Spending It Right [pdf]

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I have trouble reading this format so I threw it into ChatGPT to summarize: This article, authored by Elizabeth W. Dunn, Daniel T. Gilbert, and Timothy D. Wilson, explores the often weak relationship between money and happiness, and suggests that this might be due to how people spend their money. They propose eight principles to help consumers derive more happiness from their spending: 1. Buy Experiences Instead of T…

You can obtain a publish version of this manuscript: https://myscp.onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/10.1016/j.jcps.201...

You’ll need an institutional login though.

Point 6 and 8 can easily be misunderstood if the text wasn’t read in its entirety.

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