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You probably don’t make them cook like that other guy does rofl
Usually, when you receive guests, they insist on helping in the kitchen. It would not be polite to reject that. Also cooking is a social activity.
I’ll do the prep, cooking, cleaning, hosting, and everything else, thank you. If you want something, ask and it will be given, but to think of my guests _working_ when I’m hosting is far from my nature and far from how I’ve experienced being a guest.
I’d invite you to come and cook with me if I wanted you to cook with me, but if you arrive as a guest under no circumstances would I expect, nor want them to be doing anything in the kitchen or around the house, personally.