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That's a rather unsatisfactory way to define moon-hood, because it doesn't depend on any essential features of the two bodies. Replace Earth with something of the same mass but more dense, and the Moon gets promoted to planet, even though its size, shape, and orbit don't change? Yuck!
I believe the center of mass for the earth moon system is something like 3000 km from the center of the earth (in a moonward direction). Just for reference, the radius of the earth is 6300 km. The density of the earth is ~5.52g/cc, and halving the radius of the earth will increase the density by 8 which gives a density of 44.16 g/cc or 44,160 kg/m^3, which is about twice the density of osmium and a third as dense as…
Interestingly, both the Pluto-Charon and the Sun-Jupiter systems have barycenters above the surface of the primary body.
[1] http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Barycentric_coordinates_(astron...