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Re: How to permanently delete your Facebook account

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I got rid of Facebook, Instagram, and WhatsApp about 4 years ago. Facebook and Instagram was easy, but people who have WhatsApp really think you’re weird for not having it. Deleting WhatsApp, while annoying for me personally, has resulted in many people I know joining Signal or Telegram — the network effect can be broken by being belligerent. If you don’t want to have a conversation about why you deleted WhatsApp, si…

I mostly agree with your comment, having deleted WhatsApp myself this spring. However I have a problem with that. > many people I know joining Signal or Telegram — the network effect can be broken by being belligerent Did you not use the same network effect to get people to join Signal/Telegram? While I agree that Signal is morally better (being a non-profit and all), it is still a closed garden, which makes such net…

Get them onto Element, it's brilliant! [1]. Matrix is an aggressively open garden - it even bridges to other social networks [2].

[1]: https://element.io/

[2]: https://matrix.org/bridges/

Re: How to permanently delete your Facebook account

#62

I got rid of Facebook, Instagram, and WhatsApp about 4 years ago. Facebook and Instagram was easy, but people who have WhatsApp really think you’re weird for not having it. Deleting WhatsApp, while annoying for me personally, has resulted in many people I know joining Signal or Telegram — the network effect can be broken by being belligerent. If you don’t want to have a conversation about why you deleted WhatsApp, si…

I could have written this comment word for word. People get _offended_ when you tell them that you don't have Whatsapp. But I let them hold that hot coal themselves.

How _dare_ they not having xmpp and matrix accounts while I, the real mensch, selfhost both _servers_.

And what's with all the downmods and downright flags lately? I'm trying to be funny here.

Re: How to permanently delete your Facebook account

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Faster shortcuts: https://deletefacebook.com/ https://deleteinstagram.com/ It's probably by design, but from experience most people will need non-trivial discipline/hacks to get around the 30 day window and avoid reflexively logging in. Would be curious to know how many people who try deleting their accounts follow through to the end

If folks can't go cold turkey I'd suggest unfollowing everyone first. It makes the site much more useful and easier to quit.

This was the trick that made it possible for me to stop being addicted to Facebook. You don’t have to fight the urge to load the app. You get a strange sense of satisfaction from slowly unfollowing everything. And the more you unfollow, the less what you’re shown is interesting. You retrain your brain by getting less and less dopamine hits from the action you couldn’t control. Then a day comes where you load the app and there’a simply nothing to see.

Re: How to permanently delete your Facebook account

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post #62

Earlier quoted context omitted.

I could have written this comment word for word. People get _offended_ when you tell them that you don't have Whatsapp. But I let them hold that hot coal themselves.

How _dare_ they not having xmpp and matrix accounts while I, the real mensch, selfhost both _servers_. And what's with all the downmods and downright flags lately? I'm trying to be funny here.

No humor allowed. HN is srs bsns

Re: How to permanently delete your Facebook account

#65
post #59

The situation is quite interesting here. - Imagine, you're living outside of USA/UK/Europe. - Formally, it's possible to proceed with "Permanently delete my account". - You will even receive email assuring you that two weeks later profile would be completely deleted. - Then, couple years later you'll occasionally seen email from facebook that someone tried to log in into your ("permanently deleted") account. - You'll…

probably you were in a hurry or distressed and didn't read the text while deleting the account and probably, you have disabled your account. They will offer an option to disable account in case you change your mind later. Please stop spreading misinformation.

Disagree.

- I explicitly check to avoid any "disabling".

- The only intent was to permanently delete the account.

- You can believe me or not and I did it really careful.

Re: How to permanently delete your Facebook account

#66

I got rid of Facebook, Instagram, and WhatsApp about 4 years ago. Facebook and Instagram was easy, but people who have WhatsApp really think you’re weird for not having it. Deleting WhatsApp, while annoying for me personally, has resulted in many people I know joining Signal or Telegram — the network effect can be broken by being belligerent. If you don’t want to have a conversation about why you deleted WhatsApp, si…

> Deleting WhatsApp, while annoying for me personally, has resulted in many people I know joining Signal or Telegram — the network effect can be broken by being belligerent. Network effect is irrelevant for pure messaging services. If someone needs to talk to you, they'll send a pigeon if they have to.

Which messaging app do you think most people would join… one with nobody else using it, or one with everyone else using?

Re: How to permanently delete your Facebook account

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post #51

Deleting social media accounts is a bad idea. You should squat them and never log in.

I was going to write this. It’s a way to prevent online identity theft, to avoid someone impersonating you online. I kept my social media accounts even though I stopped using them. If someone ever impersonates me, I can use these inactive accounts to say those are definitely mine.

It doesn't prevent identify theft. Someone can still create an account using your name.

Re: How to permanently delete your Facebook account

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Earlier quoted context omitted.

I mostly agree with your comment, having deleted WhatsApp myself this spring. However I have a problem with that. > many people I know joining Signal or Telegram — the network effect can be broken by being belligerent Did you not use the same network effect to get people to join Signal/Telegram? While I agree that Signal is morally better (being a non-profit and all), it is still a closed garden, which makes such net…

Get them onto Element, it's brilliant! [1]. Matrix is an aggressively open garden - it even bridges to other social networks [2]. [1]: https://element.io/ [2]: https://matrix.org/bridges/

I would not call Element brilliant. I have had a hard time getting others to adopt it. Fluffychat (Matrix client as well) is more user-friendly.

Re: How to permanently delete your Facebook account

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post #7

I think it should be a legal requirement that users are able to configure retention of their data. For instance that any content you post will only be retained for N number of weeks/ months/years. And that social media platforms over a certain size have to agree to auditing to ensure that this data is actually deleted.

As someone who implements these types of requirements, this suggestion just adds complexity where none is needed. In the software, and the database, and the backup strategy, and for the average user. Complexity requires time, money, and introduces bugs and user error. Right now we are required by law to remove user data upon request (Europe). That law is strong enough to cover those who need it.

Actually, Telegram already does that. Similar to how your gmail account is automatically deleted after a certain time.

Re: How to permanently delete your Facebook account

#70
I deleted my Facebook account straight after the Cambridge Analytica scandal. Now I just have a fake one as I got an Oculus for my birthday and I also use Facebook to access the Marketplace as Kijiji and Craigslist are sometimes really dry in my area as most people use FB market.
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