Earlier quoted context omitted.
I didn't "forget" about it, I contend that case is already handled by GB; "one child is a boy and one child is a girl" is the same as "one child is a girl and one child is a boy" and can be expressed as either GB or BG, making GB and BG equivalent.
GB and BG take up more area in probability space. If you have a thousand paths in front of you, one leading to a fortune, one to a potion and the rest to a pit of death, you can't say the 998 paths are together equal to the other two just because they all end at the same place. It's much more likely you'll hit the pit of death. It's much more likely to have boy/girl children even though BG and GB look the same at the…
I guess that's where my confusion lies. I see that the chances of picking a grey building the above is 1/2, but I assert that the set of possibilities for the children is "two girls", "different genders" and "two boys". But yours is a good explanation, I see that that "different genders" state has a double chance of occurring compared to the other two states.
The Wikipedia article I cited above is interesting in that in one explanation, it bases the different results on interpretation of the givens. I see the problem stated as about a specific man's state, not the chances that a randomly chosen man/family with two children has two boys. In my case, this was a misdirection in trying to understand this.