Live data from Hacker News

Ask HN: Which books do you wish you'd read earlier in life?

news.ycombinator.com

61–70 of 144 posts

Re: Ask HN: Which books do you wish you'd read earlier in life?

#61
A Mathematician's Lament, by Paul Lockhart. Also, i'm not completely sure about this, because i had to have my eyes a bit open to understand it. But would be nice to had readed it in my sixteens.

Basically, one of the important ideas i saved was; If you want to learn something, don't just simply study. First, find a problem that care you, then try to solve it, last, study how to actually solve it, maybe existed a better way that you could use for your next try, making easier to you to understand everything related to that problem and say with confidence you learned; maybe didn't existed a better way, and you can share and discuss your solution achieving a better one.

Find problems, solve them, make them easier, learn.

Then, make that general for all your life problems, not only those science related ones.

Re: Ask HN: Which books do you wish you'd read earlier in life?

#62
"Don't Make Me Think" by Steve Krug, Second Edition

The book changed the course of my life. It allowed me to build a sustainable business, that at some point became my full-time job.

The magic of that book comes from the fact that it allows you to gradually develop a compassion. For your customers, prospects and all other living beings in this world.

Having that compassion embedded, you start to see a lot of subtle things. The most impactful experience for me was to comprehend that the world is a place full of pain and hardships. Not only for me, but for all others too.

Once you see it, you immediately understand there is plenty of space where you can bring the value to others.

But that's not all. The story does not end there. It turns out that bringing the value to others brings value to you.

People start to write you things like: "you are legend", "if you ever come to Chicago give me a call", "here take my money". And this is a tipping point where things start to work as a good business. It starts to shape your life. At some point it becomes evident that you should charge a prime for your product and develop the whole thing even further. While helping other living beings along the way.

That's an awesome position to be in. I thank Steve Krug, the author of the book, for bringing his findings to other people like me.

Re: Ask HN: Which books do you wish you'd read earlier in life?

#63

It's funny how western (probably American) HNers are mentioning the "how to succeed everywhere" books all over this thread. This is silly, methinks. I would mildly suggest those people to take a bit wider look at where they live and why they consider those books important to be read as early as possible. For me, I don't regret about not having read anything, I'd rather regret about having read too much and nothing su…

You make a reasonable point, but I'm not sure I like your alternative:

> We can live very productive, moral and full lives without reading anything.

Re: Ask HN: Which books do you wish you'd read earlier in life?

#64
The Psychopath Code [1], by Peter Hintjens. You can download a free legal copy.

Psychopaths and sociopaths are out there: they're about five to ten percent of the population. Once you've had your life intertwined with one, you'll never see the world the same. Know how to identify them and deal with them.

I learned about Peter Hintjens and his book when his death was reported here on Hacker News.

[1] http://hintjens.com/blog:_psychopaths

Re: Ask HN: Which books do you wish you'd read earlier in life?

#65

I wish I hadn’t ever read Ayn Rand’s books. They were a waste of time and a distraction for too many years. I’ll say this though, I’m glad I grew up and I’m glad that when I got to the end of the Fountainhead I had already figured out what was wrong with her. If not for that, I wouldn’t have recovered.

I’ve heard this, too. For those of us, like myself, that don’t realistically expect to read her books, what was wrong with her and why do you regret reading them?

For those of us, like myself, that don’t realistically expect to read her books,

Your reasons for feeling that way are, of course, your own, and I'm hardly one to tell you to do otherwise. But if I could offer any comment on this, let me just say this: there is a LOT of what I would call "caricaturized misrepresentation" of Rand and Rand's work out there in the wild. If your view on reading Rand is based on what you've heard about her from others, I'd strongly suggest you consider carefully if you can trust what you've been told.

On the flip-side, I'll also say this: while I personally am sympathetic to a lot of Rand's thinking / philosophy, I do think she did herself a mis-service in the way she chose to use the words "selfish" and "altruism". That is to say, her usage, while possibly pedantically correct, runs somewhat counter to the common vernacular usage, and it makes it unreasonably easy to misinterpret her meaning, or to impute things that aren't there, whether intentionally or otherwise.

Just to give an over-simplified example of what I mean... Rand never really said, say, "don't give to the poor". But she probably said something roughly like "don't give to the poor because of altruism, do it out of selfish self interest." To anybody educated in the last 30 years or so, that probably sounds very weird, because we tend to assume that "altruism" means something like "a desire to do good to others, like, for example, giving to the poor". But in her world-view, "altruism" was actually just a facade used to misdirect people and get them to buy into a mindset of subjugating the individual to the whims of the collective (and by implication, the self-appointed, corrupt, elitist rulers of the collective). The latter group of people being what she referred to as "moochers" in some of her works.

Likewise, in today's vernacular the word "selfish" has a meaning that's almost negative by its very definition. That is, to say that anything is done for "selfish" reasons is to assume a lack of charity, lack of empathy, a disregard for the welfare of others, evil motives, etc. But that isn't what Rand meant. When she says do things for selfish reasons, she really means "do things because they're what you, as rational, thinking, individual choose to do, without being coerced or manipulated". A person who holds to Rand's ideas can behave in a way that is 180 degrees removed from what we generally think of as "selfish" and still be acting in the "selfish" way that Rand advocates.

Anyway... that got longer than I meant for it to. I'll just finish by saying that I think most people should consider reading at least some of Rand's works and form their own opinions of what she is promoting, rather than simply accepting someone else's interpretation (including mine).

Also: https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/volokh-conspiracy/wp/201...

Re: Ask HN: Which books do you wish you'd read earlier in life?

#66
post #37

Earlier quoted context omitted.

I’ve heard this, too. For those of us, like myself, that don’t realistically expect to read her books, what was wrong with her and why do you regret reading them?

This links to a lot of good stuff: https://nintil.com/2016/04/09/why-ayn-rand-is-not-and-ought-... As a philosophy / ethics person who has studied and read a lot of philosophers and never her, even from basic argument structures of hers there are fallacies galore that show no sign of being addressed. I think the view is a magnet towards selfish people looking for justification of their views. I think her arguments, w…

This links to a lot of good stuff

It's interesting that the argument in the main article there seems to be "Rand should not be taken seriously - as an academic philosopher". That is not the same statement as "Rand should not be taken seriously".

Re: Ask HN: Which books do you wish you'd read earlier in life?

#67
post #44

The Righteous Mind: Why Good People are Divided by Politics and Religion by Jonathan Haidt It changed the way I think and most of my existing ideas.

This book didn’t exist until that long ago, so it doesn’t seem like a fair choice for “I wish I had read this when I was younger”.

I was wondering about that, but even if I'd read it in 2012 I would have benefited more than when I finally found it. And seeing as this is hypothetical, why not "books I wish I had read if they had existed earlier"..

Re: Ask HN: Which books do you wish you'd read earlier in life?

#69
The Stranger by Camus, because it introduced me to the complete lack of objectivism in society, a revelation that explained a lot of things I had experienced in my life. In fact I did read it in my 20's, but it took me years to comprehend it.

Then, every CS textbook I have written, because there was nothing like these when I needed them.

Re: Ask HN: Which books do you wish you'd read earlier in life?

#70
post #37

Earlier quoted context omitted.

I’ve heard this, too. For those of us, like myself, that don’t realistically expect to read her books, what was wrong with her and why do you regret reading them?

This links to a lot of good stuff: https://nintil.com/2016/04/09/why-ayn-rand-is-not-and-ought-... As a philosophy / ethics person who has studied and read a lot of philosophers and never her, even from basic argument structures of hers there are fallacies galore that show no sign of being addressed. I think the view is a magnet towards selfish people looking for justification of their views. I think her arguments, w…

An interesting counter argument:

https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/volokh-conspiracy/wp/201...

Post reply on HN