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Many White, Black, and Hispanic families do the same thing. It's not denigrating that sacrifice to acknowledge that being born into cohesive, supportive family that values hard work is a privilege that many poor children do not have.
I guess we will have to disagree. When you are penalizing such efforts, you are most certainly denigrating them.
Are need based scholarships denigrating the hard work of wealthy parents?