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> This is a very uncharitable interpretation. If anything, parent is saying that staying engaged and not giving up just because an issue came up, is a positive, valuable and, most importantly, not passive at all. In other words, if you can't even deal with the problem you received, how are you even begin to 'improve things' overall? It is not uncharitable interpretation. It is exactly what it means. What the cultures…
Parent statement: >> And we are back to gender essentialism, where moms are not empowered to provide structure making them dependent on father in work for it. And dad has a role of threat that comes home after being absent whole day just to punish you for mistakes during the day. Response: > Is having a dad and a mom so bad that you cannot accept those positive outcomes ( and I can easily grant there are bad ones as…
> which has a motherly figure there to provide you warmth, protection, and love. A fatherly figure that provides structure,
This is not even closely "having two parents" situation. It is prescribing specific roles to the two parents.