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Why not a non-mac cheaper desktop/workstation and a Mac laptop for use? E.g. what most major tech companies have - a laptop that is for VSCode via ssh/web browsing, and a beefy Linux dev box you ssh into for everything else? It's way cheaper, and what I use at home too - a lot cheaper than a Mac studio for everything, especially with RAM and storage.
if you do want to do local LLM stuff, mac studio is significantly better than most linux dev boxes.
Real-world matmul is about 4x higher on a DGX Spark than a M3 Ultra.