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The real lesson is: don't store your coins on a third party anything . This was a third-party wallet. Everyone used it because everyone else used it. Exactly like Mt Gox. There was no reason to store coins on Mt Gox, just like there was no reason to use this wallet. A moment's reflection would have prevented this foolish decision.
This wasn't a third party wallet actually. It is the local Parity wallet and node. What this was, was a bug in the multisig contract that Parity would give you to deploy. So it is a contract you personally deploy onto the ethereum network and then interact with. You do own it, you own the private keys for the address, etc. But the bug allowed any other address to add themselves as owners and withdraw from it. Luckily…
So many things wrong about that, it's the cryptocurrency equivalent of installing random software packages on your critical servers.