There's something to the idea of rehabilitating "obscurity", or at least recognizing that "cost" is part of threat models, and you can raise costs for particular attack vectors by degrees instead of "to infinity". But SSH is a terrible example, because the cost to the defender of simply not having SSH vulnerabilities is the same, or even less, than the cost of obfuscating it with nonstandard ports, "port knocking", o…
I would like to see a list of suggestions of "low cost" ways to obscure systems that are (relatively) harder to counteract. But I guess as soon as anyone publishes such a list then hackers will start checking for them.