"Steve only yelled at me four or five times during the 13 years I knew him." am I the only one who think being yelled at by your boss is... a bad thing? Like, at all.
Yelling isn't great, but in high-stress situations, it can happen. What I take away from the "4 or 5 times in 13 years" is that it shows that the yelling was probably meaningful. I suspect Steve was reacting authentically rather than being a constant yeller. Ironically, I suspect he yelled because he cared. I'd rather work for someone like that than places where people don't yell because either they don't care, or th…
I can see how yelling can be interpreted as caring, but I can also see it as just another poorly way to handle conflicts (kind of like being passive aggressive which I've seen a few examples of Steve Jobs being). I suppose I'd rather work in a place where my boss handle conflicts without yelling nor being passive aggressive.