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How is delicious fruit not "sugar shit" exactly? Eating poorly gives you energy too. Energy is measured in calories. Consuming sufficient calories is not a challenge.
Fruit is far healthier than junk food.
How to Build Willpower for the Weak
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Re: How to Build Willpower for the Weak
#52Something I've yet to see explored is the difference between negative and positive willpower. For example, I find it very difficult to motivate myself to do something I don't want to do, and easy to procrastinate. But it is relatively easy for me to have the willpower not to do something that I do want to do. On the other hand, many people seem to have the opposite problem; they find it relatively easy to do things t…
I'm great at putting myself through punishing training, physical or mental over a short duration but very weak in resisting things over the long term. For example, I've done endurance events that involve sleep deprivation, done intense 80hr/week work weeks when starting a business and even swimming sprint workouts so hard that I puked. But I've struggled greatly to avoid things like eating that extra 1500 kcal of cheese while watching Netflix from midnight to 2am.
The result has been a very high variance in my success at various endeavors. In the past year or so, I've been coming to believe that improving my weaker "negative" willpower carries a much greater benefit at this point than further improving my "positive" willpower. It's almost like the blades of a pair of scissors. If one it sharp enough, it can cut things on its own, but it's far better to have both blades at least reasonably sharp.
Re: How to Build Willpower for the Weak
#53Something I've yet to see explored is the difference between negative and positive willpower. For example, I find it very difficult to motivate myself to do something I don't want to do, and easy to procrastinate. But it is relatively easy for me to have the willpower not to do something that I do want to do. On the other hand, many people seem to have the opposite problem; they find it relatively easy to do things t…
I agree, too, with your last paragraph.
But aside from that, even if individuals we do not find good strategies for better managing our weaknesses.... can we find better strategies for collaborating with others with complementary strengths and weaknesses? Of the people replying to you and stating a side, it looks like roughly a 50/50 split.
Is it possible for strong-restraint people to lend restraint to weak-restraint people? Is it possible for strong-initiative people to lend initiative to weak-initiative people?
Re: How to Build Willpower for the Weak
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How is delicious fruit not "sugar shit" exactly? Eating poorly gives you energy too. Energy is measured in calories. Consuming sufficient calories is not a challenge.
Fruit is far healthier than junk food.
Really? By what definition of "healthy"?
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Fruit is far healthier than junk food.
>sugar is far healthier than sugar Really? By what definition of "healthy"?
Furthermore, eating fruit will not spike your blood sugar the same way an equivalent amount of pure sugar or a caloric equivalent amount of junk food.
These are not controversial statements, there is plenty of actual research to back this up.
Finally, there are many ways to heat healthfully, and fruit is not essential: however it is unambiguously healthier for you than junk food.
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Just continue teaching people, like you are doing now.
No, that's not the point at all. If it reads as condescending, you didn't pick up on the last few sentences well enough. I've done plenty of stuff that I regret, some of it worse than what I'm sure the average person has done.
wow.
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Wow, you are so special. Edit: I think you took it down for your own sake, not ours.
You're not the friendliest person around. Do you delight in making me feel bad?
Re: How to Build Willpower for the Weak
#58Earlier quoted context omitted.
>sugar is far healthier than sugar Really? By what definition of "healthy"?
Fruit contains far more than just sugar: fiber for example, is great for you. Vitamins and minerals are also, generally speaking, good for you. Furthermore, eating fruit will not spike your blood sugar the same way an equivalent amount of pure sugar or a caloric equivalent amount of junk food. These are not controversial statements, there is plenty of actual research to back this up. Finally, there are many ways to h…