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Experience: We found a baby on the subway – now he's our 26-year-old son

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Re: Experience: We found a baby on the subway – now he's our 26-year-old son

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Everything about this story is so satisfying, that if I read it in a lesser source I would be doubting it. The person finding the baby was the person who eventually adopted him. The judge asking the guy to adopt the baby was the same judge that performed the wedding of the couple doing the adoption. Just so many great details.

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In response to a heartwarming story you did not read, you made an account on this website to advocate for harshly punishing a child or young woman acting under extreme duress for a crime committed 26 years ago?

Re: Experience: We found a baby on the subway – now he's our 26-year-old son

#53
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What are those safe ways?

In the US anyway there are places you can drop off a child "no questions asked". Often fire departments or (I think?) police stations. It's to prevent this exact thing.

Re: Experience: We found a baby on the subway – now he's our 26-year-old son

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I find this story slightly odd. I'm not trying to suggest it's not true, I have trust in the Guardian not to print falsehoods; but do they really offer abandoned babies to just anyone in America? Here in the UK, I used to work with a guy many years ago who was trying to adopt. He and his wife had to go through months and months of vetting and paperwork to be allowed to become adopted parents. You basically have to pr…

The judge didn’t ask him if he wanted to adopt there and then in that precise second and that was that. The judge asked if he was interested. Perhaps the judge asked this knowing that the circumstances showed this was a caring man who had the child’s best interests at heart and had demonstrated through actions - and described through testimony we have not heard - his feelings towards the child when finding him. They…

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Re: Experience: We found a baby on the subway – now he's our 26-year-old son

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I find this story slightly odd. I'm not trying to suggest it's not true, I have trust in the Guardian not to print falsehoods; but do they really offer abandoned babies to just anyone in America? Here in the UK, I used to work with a guy many years ago who was trying to adopt. He and his wife had to go through months and months of vetting and paperwork to be allowed to become adopted parents. You basically have to pr…

Man, in the UK you can’t even get a frigging cat without having several inspections of your home and interviews to confirm that you will be a fit “parent”.

I mean, I’m all for safeguarding in principle - but it evidently doesn’t bloody work.

https://www.bbc.com/news/articles/c5y0xz424v1o

Re: Experience: We found a baby on the subway – now he's our 26-year-old son

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In response to a heartwarming story you did not read, you made an account on this website to advocate for harshly punishing a child or young woman acting under extreme duress for a crime committed 26 years ago ?

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Re: Experience: We found a baby on the subway – now he's our 26-year-old son

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Guardian is not behind a paywall?

Here in the UK, you have to either pay a subscription fee or accept ALL of their tracking cookies in order to read their articles.

And archive.is joins their users into botnets

I’ll take the cookies

Re: Experience: We found a baby on the subway – now he's our 26-year-old son

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God bless the woman who felt they had no other choice & give them help rather than punishment. We will never know the circumstances but we can obviously assume they weren't very much better than the baby's to have done this. Nobody doing something like this out of disdain for the child would have carried it to delivery (regardless of their stance on abortion).

At least in NY State, babies up to 30 days old can be left for care by the state. > New York State's Abandoned Infant Protection Act allows a parent to abandon a newborn baby up to 30 days of age anonymously and without fear of prosecution, as long as the baby is abandoned in a safe manner. > A parent is not guilty of a crime if the infant is left with an appropriate person or in a suitable location and the parent pr…

I think every state has a similar type of safe haven law these days. This one for NY first came out the same summer as the story in the article starts. This and similar stories were making a lot of news around the time and people were really interested in trying to help. It doesn't make things perfect, there are e.g. still occasional situations where a person isn't in their own control or in a sane state, but these kinds of changes did help thousands of cases since.

I think a lot of school sex ed programs/health classes have started teaching this to kids as well. Not all of course, as with most things sex ed.

Re: Experience: We found a baby on the subway – now he's our 26-year-old son

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The judge didn’t ask him if he wanted to adopt there and then in that precise second and that was that. The judge asked if he was interested. Perhaps the judge asked this knowing that the circumstances showed this was a caring man who had the child’s best interests at heart and had demonstrated through actions - and described through testimony we have not heard - his feelings towards the child when finding him. They…

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I suggest your LLM radar is a bit out of tune.

Re: Experience: We found a baby on the subway – now he's our 26-year-old son

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I find this story slightly odd. I'm not trying to suggest it's not true, I have trust in the Guardian not to print falsehoods; but do they really offer abandoned babies to just anyone in America? Here in the UK, I used to work with a guy many years ago who was trying to adopt. He and his wife had to go through months and months of vetting and paperwork to be allowed to become adopted parents. You basically have to pr…

I can’t confirm or deny the Guardian story, but I do personally know someone who found a small baby in a bus in Kenya and preceded to adopt and raise her.

It sounds like Public Transport Baby Adoption is an evolution of the Cat Distribution System: https://knowyourmeme.com/memes/cat-distribution-system
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