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I find this comment to be downright insulting to the parent. You manage to: 1) Call them entitled for feeling angry 2) Remind them that other people have it worse 3) Imply they're stupid for imaging things could work any other way And then try to defend your obviously immature, unproductive, and unsolicited criticism in the "I'm just being logical!" excuse. The parent didn't go on a screed and rage at the world. They…
I see nothing insulting in my comment, unless you think that just so much as questioning any of the premises of an emotional response in someone suffering is automatically an insult. In that case, you're just wrong and irrationally so. Being sick doesn't make a person free of possibly feeling entitled or coming to unreasonable conclusions, nor does it make it wrong to question their feelings. I did so fairly politely…
You refer several times to argument and debate but you're tilting at windmills. The OP didn't make an argument. The closest thing is "Such is the state of medicine for profit, I guess." which is more of a resigned, bitter observation than overt indictment of capitalism.
If you want to use that as a prompt to say why no other funding model is better, then ok fine. But there are polite ways to do it which acknowledge the legitimacy of the person's feelings.
What's different about my comments is that they address things actually in the text and are in the spirit of bystander intervention and setting the tone of the commons.