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I said "not disabling", not that deafness is not a disability. Those two things mean different things to me. Obviously deaf people cannot hear. Not able. Dis-able. Deafness is a disability. But not all disabilities are generally disabling of individuals. The only disability that deafness causes is a lack of perception of sound. Hearing people have a panoply of inferences about what that means -- about how it disables…
I'm empathetic to this argument, but there needs to be some kind of differentiation between preserving culture and abuse for the sake of community. I can imagine the same argument applying to a cult with cruel traditions, or hazing in general.
Or should a fish be able to breathe without water?
In both cases there are ways to function without fundamentally altering the body, and neither is wrong.
It is not so clear that there is "abuse", when there is an empathetic standard of living.
Now to me, the best argument for taking this is that deaf people do have ears, whether or not they function. So it is reasonable for them to experience sound, but also, they have a right not to, if they so choose.
What I think is harder, if you have experienced neither, to be able to make that decision well. And nobody is talking yet about reversing such a therapy...