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That gravity is curvature of spacetime is one view of two equivalent views, but it is the standard view. The other view is that you have flat spacetime with different distortions (of things other than spacetime) than the distortions you get in curved spacetime. The Schwarzschild metric essentially lets you do exactly that projection of curved spacetime to flat, and vice-versa. When you watch an animation like https:/…
I last took a physics course when Pluto was a planet, so excuse my possibly outdated question, but isn't the detection of gravitational waves proof of gravity being a force? I follow a few educators/communicators in this field and I have a feeling they're using this "gravity isn't really a force" to bridge the gap between their deep understanding and us mortals that don't poses the language / understanding to get the…
The core idea is that when you move a mass, its contribution to the spacetime geometry changes, but the effects of the change of the geometry doesn't apply instantaneously to all the universe but instead the change propagates at the speed of light.
So that explains why any sudden movement of a mass creates a "crest" that moves through space at the speed of light.
Furthermore, the sources of fast movement of extremely heavy mass just happen to involve an object that wiggles back and forth in a periodic way because those events involve heavy objects orbiting other heavy objects.
That's the reason we can measure a wave with multiple crests and we can talk about a wave length of the gravitational waves: the wave length of the gravitational waves matches the period of the orbit of the heavy mass.