Earlier quoted context omitted.
I know that his trans child won't speak to him - I surmise it indicates hate, but perhaps not. Usually when people say things like "this is the final straw" it indicates anger. You can read more on the former by searching "Xavier Musk" and/or "Vivian Musk".
Isn't there an inversion taking place in that logic. It stands that she might hate him, but not that he hates her.
"he hates her" but that
"he hates that she hates him".