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Re: Stop Acting Like You're Famous

#51
post #17

I’m going to hard disagree with this. A lot of the enjoyment I get from creation is the process of others enjoying what I’ve built. Further more, building for others is great for building out areas you’re weak or inexperienced in. Like, I was poor on the accessibility front until I found the thing I created resonated with the visually impaired folk.

This frivolous article is not fodder for "hard disagree"-ment.

Re: Stop Acting Like You're Famous

#52

This is probably good advice for someone else. For me, life got both a whole lot more interesting and a whole lot more fun when I started acting like I was famous.

What do you do to act famous? Obsess over your Instagram image and dress covertly when you go out grocery shopping?

Re: Stop Acting Like You're Famous

#53

Earlier quoted context omitted.

The way I read “personal style” was, don’t make it your whole personality. And making things look good is in the eye of the beholder. If you like design and want to make pretty things, do that and don’t worry about the criticism. For me, pretty is my code, I couldn’t care less about the UX because I’m the only user.

But the second you want to make things for anyone else is when UI/UX matters. Some people (and many people on HN) take graphic design for granted, but it's the first thing they seem about your product. It matters. Your app can work flawlessly but nobody will use it if the text has poor contrast or the buttons are comically small, for example.

People say this but I never saw it matter like you say. I know many ux/ui people in my network who I ask for feedback and help; I have never seen any difference in uptake from the vanilla theme version I did myself through to months of tweaking these guys did. Sure it looks tons nicer but it doesn’t reflect at all in (measured) user satisfaction, signups or usage. The default themes these days (shadcn etc) don’t make any of the mistakes you mentioned and users that are not obsessed with tech don’t really care ‘it looks like everything else’. Maybe it’s because I never do b2c and only b2b, but I never saw the difference, not in the last 30 years anyway. Even when these design systems and widgets etc didn’t exist, people didn’t care because there was nothing better; now there is ‘more than good enough by default’.

Re: Stop Acting Like You're Famous

#55
post #5

That's easier said and done when half of the population between 15 and 45 are addicted to Instagram. Even if a small percentage of them, say 5%, decide to emulate the famous people they follow we will have too many people who believe they are important.

Instagram really does seem to give some people delusions or let's delusional people really embrace their disconnect from reality.

It's so weird some of the things people do.

Re: Stop Acting Like You're Famous

#56
post #30

Earlier quoted context omitted.

I defiantly do not want to see people's typos move the language forward, especially when it's native speakers always making the same silly mistakes, for some reason (could of, they're/their, your's, etc.). I do like non-native speakers translating and incorporating their local sayings into English prose.

If enough people are making the same mistake, won't it eventually stop being a mistake?

Not until my dying breath. The English language is a mess because of its haphazard evolution mostly driven by immigration over centuries.

Which is what bugs me about native grammar mistakes: only native people make them. No one that has learned English as second language could ever construct "could of" as it makes no sense. And the act of being defiant is very very different than being definite about something. Yet people get this wrong all the time, as if they never learned grammar at school, or let alone read ONE book.

(My pet peeve is native speakers unable to pronounce "aesthetics" correctly. Drives me nuts. )

Re: Stop Acting Like You're Famous

#57
post #30
post #25

I recommend against Grammarly because I like when I see peoples' idiosyncrasies and it's little fuckups that move language forward.

I defiantly do not want to see people's typos move the language forward, especially when it's native speakers always making the same silly mistakes, for some reason (could of, they're/their, your's, etc.). I do like non-native speakers translating and incorporating their local sayings into English prose.

> people's

The possessive apostrophe originated as a mistake or idiosyncrasy, credited to one of two people in the early 1500s depending on who's making the assertion, that became widely adopted.

Possession should be, in static, unchanging, OBJECTIVELY CORRECT DON'T YOU DARE GO CHANGIN IT English, written "peoplees" (or something like that but you get the point).

Merely calling "'" an "apostrophe" was a mistake for over a century, as the word was a well-defined rhetorical term that was later adopted to describe the mark sometime during the mark's slow acceptance.

Grammarly makes people sound like soulless automatons who have been trained to write by similarly soulless and robotic corporate ad copy writers.

Sometimes it seems like half the English language is just Shakespeare or some other writer making up shit that sticks-- and that's awesome.

Re: Stop Acting Like You're Famous

#58
post #47

My son put effort into dressing up for his Year 10 formal as that is what you do. But during the event he observed that most kids focused on how they looked rather than noticing others, and thought he should have spent a lot less effort into his outfit :)

> But during the event he observed that most kids focused on how they looked rather than noticing others

Genuinely, that is good. People who care and judge how others look beyond normal social propriety tend to be pretty bad to be around.

Re: Stop Acting Like You're Famous

#59
post #47

My son put effort into dressing up for his Year 10 formal as that is what you do. But during the event he observed that most kids focused on how they looked rather than noticing others, and thought he should have spent a lot less effort into his outfit :)

I think kids are constantly comparing.

Watch how many of them are buying exactly what their friends buy, so they can fit in and relax a bit.

Re: Stop Acting Like You're Famous

#60
post #58
post #47

My son put effort into dressing up for his Year 10 formal as that is what you do. But during the event he observed that most kids focused on how they looked rather than noticing others, and thought he should have spent a lot less effort into his outfit :)

> But during the event he observed that most kids focused on how they looked rather than noticing others Genuinely, that is good. People who care and judge how others look beyond normal social propriety tend to be pretty bad to be around.

I think the point is more around the collective distraction of dressing to a formal (and for kids, unfamiliar) standard, rather than enjoying time with the people around you at a party.
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